How Fake Feminism Has Turned Women Into Sheeple

Fri, Aug 8, 2014 - 1:59pm

Note: We do not normally delve into issues like abortion on Main Street. Turd has made an exception for this article. I'm doing this article by request of Stackaloha. It's going to be controversial. Deal with it.

Women are becoming violent. Did you ever ask yourself why?

Never mind about the apparent increase in creepy cases of young women going on murder sprees. Never mind about female teachers abusing their students sexually (male and female). Never mind about young women trolling Craigslist with their boyfriends to find men to rape and murder.

Even on a basic level, when it comes to political discourse, women are foaming at the mouth:

Abortion Activist Attacks Pro-Lifers

Assaulting other women:

UC Santa Barbara Professor Assaults Young Pro-Life Activist

Or acting like proverbial harpies:

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Or how about the woman from the Russian art group "Voina" whose idea of performance art was to walk into a grocery store and steal a whole chicken by shoving it up her vagina? (Warning: As you scroll down the page at this link you will see a photo of said chicken. It is probably about as modest of a photo for such a thing as you can get, but it's still not for the faint of heart.)

Why aren't these women up in arms over NSA spying? Or paying attention to the loss of freedom around the world? Why aren't they outraged over all the sex trafficking (i.e., sex slavery) across our borders? What are they doing about Boko Harem except posting an occasional tweet?

What has happened to the hearts and souls of women? How have so many young women gotten so dark and ugly?

I have a theory, and I'm sorry this is not politically correct. Let me state for the record that I was a very active feminist and a member of NOW and WAC (Women's Action Coalition) in my youth. WAC thought it was "in your face" at the time, but compared to modern feminists, it was pretty tame. (Our idea of a "radical" action was to hire a boat for the Christmas light parade and put feminist slogans up in lights and yell at people through a bullhorn. Stupid and rude, but no nudity was involved.)

I went to two pro-choice marches on Washington - one with college friends and one with my boyfriend straight out of college. I kept my round, purple "KEEP ABORTION LEGAL" sign from the march and hung it up in our bedroom. (Boy, was that some bad karma. It was basically a big sign saying "no babies here!" and now that I'm in my 40s and childless, I can't say I'm happy with what I've reaped.)

I've evolved, and I'm now what I'd call politically pro-choice and spiritually pro-life. And I'm only politically pro-choice because I think abortion will happen regardless as to whether it's legal or not, and it might as well be "safe" (or rather, "safer" - it can actually be dangerous).

I've thankfully never had an abortion. But I've been a victim of the abortion mindset, which places sex above commitment and gives men a reason to treat all women like prostitutes.

Part of what changed my mind about abortion was reading testimonials of women who have had abortions, and had their lives ripped apart, only to realize they made the biggest mistake of their lives. Some women who have had abortions cannot stand the noise of a vacuum cleaner, or go to the dentist, because the suction sound brings them back to the horror of the abortion table.

One in three American women have had an abortion.

I think abortion makes women angry. And I think we're in tremendous denial about it.

We're also in a culture where a fake, pornographic view of women's sexuality is being pushed. Women are no longer honored for being nurturers. We have no good role models. Miley Cyrus, who doesn't even have the body of a woman because she's starved herself into skin and bones, is lauded for acting like a horny man.

I believe women are angry about this as well, though we don't admit it. And guys, I'm not letting you off the hook here. You are at fault too. When you treat us like chattel - when you abuse a woman or, God forbid, a little girl - you are destroying a woman's soul. You are making it hard for that woman to love. And women are designed to love. Not be sex objects, but to love and nurture.

I used to rail against the idea that women should be nurturing. But as I got older, I realized there was a hole in my soul where a child should be. Blame it on biology, or get spiritual if you wish, but women are wired to nurture. Once I realized that and started letting out my "inner nurturer," I felt more whole.

I'm not saying that all women need to have children to be fulfilled. What I am saying is that women are wired to nurture - and that can manifest in many different ways. Nuns never have children but they nurture people all the time.

And we should not be ashamed of that. There is no higher spiritual calling than to give love to the needy and soothe the helpless.

When we women go against our basic natures, we become warped and diseased in our souls. We become filled with rage and act out that rage in ways that even a crazy man can't quite touch. A violent crazy man is just that - violent and scary. A violent crazy woman becomes a nuclear bomb.

I believe this is because our hearts cannot handle the direct assault upon our vulnerable inner self that enables us to nurture. When that is wounded (and yes, I believe abortion wounds that part of us as well as abuse), women can go absolutely bonkers.

Yet, look at what the "women's movement" has become: It's entire focus in the West is on so-called "reproductive rights," or more euphemistically "women's health." The sole purpose of feminism today is to allow promiscuous sex without consequence.

And if you actually demand that a female high school student wear modest clothing, you are told you are "disempowering" her and "slut-shaming" her.

It's insane. Absolutely insane.

What's next? Stripper poles in the high school gym, because it's a "great workout"?

Young women have been duped into thinking that their main focus in life should be "sexual empowerment."

What a crock.

It's a distraction. It plays on the fears of young women that they won't be loved. Many young women are desperate for male attention. We're missing a dad at home and trying to fill that hole in our hearts, and confuse a guy leering at us with love.

When I started dating after breaking up with my college boyfriend in Los Angeles in the 90s, there was the "3 Date Rule." In other words, if the guy took you out three times, and you didn't have sex by the end of the third date, he'd dump you because he figured at that point you were just using him for dinner.

By the time I left Los Angeles in 2010, most young guys expected sex immediately and you were lucky if they offered you a drink. You were also lucky if they called. They'd likely try to text you at 1 am for a booty call.

This culture of sexual "freedom" is actually a prison for women (and men). It sets high pressure and expectations for sexual intimacy. And it leads to the need for abortions, because who wants to raise a kid with a guy you just picked up at the bar?

I will now put on my conspiracy hat here. I have come to believe this is what the elites want. It's "Brave New World" they are shooting for. They want the masses to be distracted by sex and drugs and dumbed down. I also think Big Pharma must have their tentacles in the big feminist organizations - pushing synthetic hormones and birth control. It's big business to them. (It's apparently also big business to the abortion industry.)

Look at what these evil forces have accomplished - women used to hold the moral high ground in America. After all, it was the original feminist movement of the late 1800s/early 1900s that promoted "Temperance." They got Prohibition passed. While I'm not really gung-ho over the idea of women advocating for a Nanny State, it is really sad to me that it is now women who are advocating for the severe moral and cultural decline of America - all because they've been brainwashed into thinking that being sexually attractive is "empowering."

It is not. You get maybe a decade or two of men slobbering over you, which frankly isn't all that it's cracked up to be, and then you're put out to pasture. Been there, done that. Don't care about guys hitting on me - it's meaningless. It doesn't mean jack when you are alone at night and they've left because they don't actually care about you.

But for a little while, when you are young and don't know better, you get a little ego boost from the attention. And when you come from a broken family, you don't realize what hole you are trying to fill.

It is no wonder, then, that so many young women are much more focused on make-up and clothes than on what's happening in the world. We've been sold a Big Lie - that we can act like men and sleep around and somehow that will make us "empowered" and "happy." But in order to do that, we must look our best. That means hair, make-up, and shoes, and later on, Botox, plastic surgery, liposuction, and desperate attempts to look twenty years younger.

But who, in the end, gets their feet put into stirrups and has a harried doctor suck the literal life out of them?

It's the woman. She goes home, empty, and the guy who used her for sex moves on to the next girl.

This is why women are angry. And we don't even know it.

And it's why we have failed miserably and are enablers of the destruction of freedom.

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Aug 8, 2014 - 2:49pm



Aug 8, 2014 - 2:55pm



edit- holy canola!! what happens when you post "first" but it double posts??

Is it a 1st ever in the universe double post "First"?

is the next post following these 2 "firsts", actually second since there was really only one before it?

Stephanie, i'm looking forward to now reading your post, could you maybe give me a ruling on this?

Aug 8, 2014 - 3:06pm

Abortion is here to stay.

Doesn't matter if you're pro-choice or pro-life.

As long as a married women get knocked up by their lovers, abortion stays.

As long as college girls get knocked up on spring break, abortion stays.

As long as the laws of nature exists, abortion stays.

Nothing you can do about it.

It's got nothing to do with being angry. It's just being human.

Aug 8, 2014 - 3:12pm

women have been mad a long time..................

women have been mad a long time..................

Aug 8, 2014 - 3:14pm

@lumpy1 - no, that's not a "law of nature"

That married woman would not need the abortion if she held herself up to higher standards.

Same with the girl on spring break.

There is no "law of nature" that says a woman has to have sex with everything that moves. That's a modern cultural thing - that somehow we're entitled to constant pleasure, all the time, with no consequences.

Hedonism has been the downfall of many a civilization. It is our choice to focus on lower urges vs. higher things like art and spiritual ideals.

Sorry you've bought into the idea that we can't do better than this.

Aug 8, 2014 - 3:52pm

Now I am jealous!

I have to buy my chicken!

It takes so long to figure this all out. I am only just beginning to learn why I love my wife. If you had asked me 10 years ago why I loved my wife it would have elicited something like: "I don't know, I just do." But after 2 kids and a decade of tackling some pretty serious shit with my wife by my side, I think I get it. It would be very easy to pick this article apart Stephanie. You have really stuck your neck out here. But I can't say I disagree with you. One of the things I find most attractive about my wife, who is in really good shape and really pretty, is her nurturing of my children. At the risk of getting torn apart here, it turns me on. She is a great Mom! I love that.

Aug 8, 2014 - 3:56pm

The death of a son- bitter tears

Stephanie: Thanks for bringing up a difficult topic to discuss. Everyone is quite divided on the subject and marches with signs really never changes anyone. My post will not change anyone. However, there was a post on "Thread of Faith" forum on Aug. 1st that your message revived within me. So, I just copied it. I see again, the effects of those who seek their "rights" via their true father. So here is the post from one NotWorthyDale: Be sure to read his comment on the paragraph starting with "I am now 65".

ymn / Letter / Confession

Hat Tip!


"Having made peace through the blood of his cross..." Col.1:20

Horatius Bonar, 1808 - 1889

1. By the cross of Jesus standing,

Love our straitened souls expanding,

Taste we now the peace and grace!

Health from yonder tree is flowing,

Heav'nly light is on it glowing,

From the blessed Suff'rer's face.

2. Here is pardon's pledge and token,

Guilt's strong chain forever broken,

Righteous peace securely made;

Brightens now the brow once shaded,

Freshens now the face once faded,

Peace with God now makes us glad.

3. All the love of God is yonder,

Love above all thought and wonder,

Perfect love that casts out fear!

Strength, like dew, is here distilling,

Glorious life our souls is filling,

Life eternal, only here!

4. Here the living water welleth;

Here the Rock, now smitten, telleth

Of salvation freely giv'n:

This the fount of love and pity,

This the pathway to the city,

This the very gate of heav'n. A-men.


.............."Except ye receive the kingdom of God as a little child," and be as meek and sober-minded as a babe, "ye cannot enter into the kingdom of God." That is a word which should touch you near, and make you stoop and cast yourself down, and make your great spirit fall. I know that this will not be easily done, but I recommend it to you, as you tender (offer formally) your part of the kingdom of heaven.

Brother, I may, from new experience, speak of Christ to you. Oh, if ye saw in Him what I see! A river of God's unseen joys has flowed from bank to brae over my soul since I parted with you. I wish that I wanted part (had less), so being ye might have (have more); that your soul might be sick of love for Christ, or rather satiated with Him. This clay-idol, the world, would seem to you then not worth a fig; time will eat you out of possession of it. When the eye-strings break, and the breath groweth cold, and the imprisoned soul looketh out of the windows of the clay-house, ready to leap out into eternity, what would you then give for a lamp full of oil? Oh seek it now." ---- Letter CXLVIII (a portion); from "Letters of Samuel Rutherford"

Note: The phrase 'from bank to brae' = Above ordinary bounds, or boundaries


***** Miscellany *****

1. I can't remember where I heard it, or who I heard it from, but a quote that has always stuck in my mind is this: "The Church is not an organization but, rather, an organism." Perhaps this will be the over-arching theme in, and the synthesis of, our reading @ "The Pilgrim Church"(?).

2. I hope I don't come off as pretentious. The Lord knows 'my standing up and my sitting down'...'He knows my words before I ever speak them.' From my youth, I have known His name, but never did I choose to honor it. I, like many others, chose to set my own course, and sail by my own compass. I have hurt many along the way, and I have 'pierced myself through with many sorrows'. May the beauty of a well-formed sentence not conceal the wretchedness of the man who wields the pen.

I am now 65. By the age of 35, I was married and divorced twice. By my first wife, Lisa, I fathered a son. That child was not allowed to see the light of day. We, being godless, and with a marriage already 'on the rocks', thought it not only reasonable, but even a kindness, to end that pregnancy by aborting the child. It was years later, while under conviction of sin in a place where drunks 'dry out', that the Spirit of my blessed Lord whispered, "You had a hand in the death of your own son." That arrow from Christ's bow nearly slew me, and to this day, sticks fast in me. Whenever that word passes through my memory, I weep bitter tears. And Lisa suffered greatly, too, as she now faces old-age wounded, and sorrowful, and childless.

There is no profit to be had by any further disclosure of a life poorly lived, whether it be of another failed marriage or two more disappointed, broken-hearted children who were allowed to live, yet were poorly loved; whether it be of thefts, or of lies, or of perversity; whether it be of a venomous, spiteful, blaspheming tongue or of multiple attempts to make shipwreck of faith by sin against light. My failings have been legion...My sins have been great...My life and my gift have been sorely misspent.

I only confess these things that you may know me a little. I refuse to go to my deathbed without a good word for Christ upon my lips. I am, by posting here, showing you an old man's attempt to return to his first love. In heaven or on earth, I have no other help but Christ. I wander about all the day long asking, "Have you seen my Beloved?" I speak up now because some say 'it is wisdom to strike while the iron is hot'. Whether this be obedience to that injunction, "Stir up the gift that is in you", I know not, nor do I care. All I do know is that I long to die with my head upon the pillow of Christ's breast...And I hope that I shall see the faces of everyone I have injured, happy and not weeping, gathered 'round the banqueting table when we arrive at that great and joy-full Marriage Supper of the Lamb. A-men.

3. I fear I have over-stepped, and said too much. I think I am overly tired.


NWD = NotWorthyDale

Aug 8, 2014 - 4:05pm

@ag1969 - you are very lucky

And so is your wife.

Everyone should have love like that. And promiscuity robs us of deep and lasting love. No, it's not always easy, but it's worth it.

Darth Smoker
Aug 8, 2014 - 4:07pm

Thank you Stephanie for

Thank you Stephanie for sharing your Heart. Well said.

"Whoever controls the Diction controls the argument". "pro-choice" vs. "pro-abortion" or "anti-life"

Aug 8, 2014 - 4:13pm

@NW View - thanks for sharing that

Men are harmed by abortion as well, which is why there are men's support groups for it. I do think we need more rights for male parents in our society. Granted, it would be difficult to justify a law requiring her to carry a child just because the father wanted it. I actually hope there will be a day when technology will be able to take over (i.e., instead of aborting, put the fetus into an incubator) and the woman can sever her ties but let the father or adoptive parents take on the child. Of course, we then get into the danger of too many women opting for incubators, and I would guess a baby does better being nurtured in a womb, but it's a compromise that I think would reduce the amount of pain and suffering overall.

PS I would also be concerned about the state mandating that all children be raised in incubators, and then we'd really have Brave New World. So there is a grave danger with this technology as well.

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